I can't believe that I'm the only person who held Zac's dad accountable for his shady behaviors. Everyone else just doesn't give a fuck. Starla doesn't give a fuck because she just doesn't want to waste any more energy on a cheat who wasted 30+ years of her life so I get why she doesn't care. . .but Zac? And I really can't stand Zac for that.
Like what, does he think his dad is going to get the benefits of his grandchildren from me and Zac when he dishonored Starla and me and he wants to be a proper father figure for Henry and Olivia but not for me and Zac? Nope. Giving Jenny his last name after what he did to Starla?! Like how did he think I was going to react to that?! How does a cunt give someone his last name to his second wife when Starla was with him the longest?! So RUDE and DISRESPECTFUL! If it took me 8 years to forgive my own dad and my own dad never did anything like Zac's dad, it's going to take another 16 for Zac's dad. My dad never cheated on my mom and had a second family while he was still married to my mom or gave his last name to a gold digging whore his own son's age who wasn't Zac's mother. Things just didn't work out with my parents and there was no cheating involved so something like that is forgivable. And posting the cheat's baby toddlers isn't going to make me forgive Zac's dad faster. In fact, it has the opposite effect. People are like, "You don't have to deal with Zac's shady relatives. Just be nice to them for the wedding and after the wedding you don't have to have anything to do with them." I said, "It's a little hard for that when Zac still wants to hang out with the toddlers. It's like I'm being forced to accept infidelity just because Zac doesn't have a problem with it. That's really one thing that I can't stand about Zac -- is how forgiving he is. His father put Starla through hell and back and Zac's like tra-la-laing within his dad's second family like it's no big deal what his dad did." My lesbo friend says, "You're mad because his dad basically got away with everything he did." I said, "EXACTLY!" Like, "The fuck, does the cheat think I'll happily invite him to my wedding with Zac when he's not even with Zac's mother? As if." It took me years to get married because I actually want to get it right and so it's amazing how the in-laws couldn't keep their own marriage in line yet the kids will do a better job with our marriage because we learn from THEIR mistakes. A shame that Zac's dad didn't want to be a shining example of a loving marriage. Instead, Zac's dad is a shining example of what not to do in a marriage and how it affects the kids. Zac's dad may be happy that a whore is riding his dick every night and he still gets sex when he's 70 and 80 but Zac doesn't post his ass on Father's Day for doing horrible things to his mom. It's so disgusting how some people can quickly move on from a 30+ year marriage when everyone knew the couple because of them being together the longest and everyone in the friend group just always knew Starla was the one who used to be with Dave and when they reminisce about old times STARLA was the one who was with Dave back then, not this gold digger looking for a free and easy ride in life. Zac Efron is like me in some ways and totally not like me in other ways. I always wanted someone who reacts the way I do to situations, especially in situations where I don't let people walk all over me -- but unfortunately, Zac is more forgiving than I am and he even accepts his father's affair toddlers with the mistress as his siblings. It would be nice to see Zac hold all those fake accounts talking shit about him accountable for their lies and their disrespect, but he's the kind of guy to think that not responding to stuff like that is the way to go.
Those two babies are going to grow up and learn how their parents hurt people to be together. One of my co-workers told me she was the product of an affair like that and she doesn't like what her father did and she doesn't talk to her father much or have anything to do with him. She has to live with him because she wants to be in California, otherwise she would have lived with her mom instead. She has nothing with her father. Thankfully, she didn't turn out like her scum bag father and is waiting and she knows how his actions hurt others and to not act like him. It's insane how the kids the cheaters have will act more moralistic than the scum bags who had them. Thankfully, my children with Zac Efron will grow up and learn they have two loving parents who are still together 50 years later who never had affairs to be together. And my kids with Zac Efron will be proud to post him on Father's Day. It's wild how his dad doesn't give a shit that Zac doesn't post his ass on Father's Day, anymore. Zac will post Henry and Olivia but not his dad on Father's Day? Hmm... That's telling to me. . .I know Zac doesn't like what his dad did, but he just accepted it. In a way, it's a good thing that Zac's not totally like me -- because we'd both be still living with relatives almost broke and jobless if he was trying to get a career like mine. Thankfully, Zac, is good with finances and is in an industry where he can make something of himself. He knows I just wanted to make a career for myself so that people can't call me a gold digger and no one will ever call me a gold digger because I had a fun ass life before Zac and his money so people can't accuse me for being with him for his money when I can get shit that I want with my own money -- that's one of the reasons why I wanted my own career. These people call The Girl Code/The Bro Code control, I call it having standards and having respect for one's bestie. People who think they can go for anyone they want and they don't care if I'm interested in him or that he's interested in me won't last long as my friends. I can't stand these holier-than-thou freaks who have no boundaries and they would be willing to backstab a friend and go after the same guy as their friend did just because they can and just because they're interested.
There's plenty of fish in the sea where these people don't have to double dip in the same pool as their friends and relatives. GROSS how some people pass a person around like he or she is candy and quite frankly I wouldn't take someone seriously who wanted to hook up with a friend's former crush who needed to be told that isn't okay. This is how drama and affairs happen: when people have no boundaries and they think they can go for whatever and whoever they want without considering who it might hurt. The reason those old men pick those naive young women is because those dumb bimbos are the only ones who would be with someone who has multiple children with other people and they would put up with a guy having lots of female friends for the money. Whereas, an older person wouldn't put up with bullshit or a guy being flirty with females as long as she's the main one she doesn't care if he flirts with others.
The young, dumb bimbo lets the old man do whatever he wants and he can brag about having a good-looking younger wife in return. In the end, the good looks wear off when he realizes how boring the dumb bimbo who has no morals is. That's the trade-off of being with someone who lets a person get away with anything: she will be boring and have no personality. He can't crawl back to his ex-wife of 30 years, either because he burned that bridge to the GROUND. He shouldn't have moved on so fast and knocked up the mistress so soon after the divorce. If he had at least waited a few years things could have been repaired with the ex wife if he didn't have children with the mistress, but no, he burned that bridge so badly with the ex-wife he will never receive another chance ever again. And of course, the mistress just doesn't give a shit -- she'll still stay with him because she has nowhere else to go and no one else decent will date a homewrecker besides the one guy she's got. So she can enjoy the unfaithful old man. She tamed him -- congrats! I don't get why Jennifer Lopez took Ben Affleck back after he married and had kids with Jennifer Garner and hooked up with other people. I would never take someone I used to be with back who had kids with other people and hooked up with others in between. Once a person brings kids into the world with another woman it's officially over for good. It's over when they hook up with someone else. I get turned off knowing a person hooked up with others while trying to be with me. It's different with Zac because unfortunately, he has to do that for his movie roles, but I've noticed it's not as intense as it used to be in his younger years. I'm sure he said something about those unnecessary scenes and said I won't put up with that bullshit and I don't care if it's just for the movies. Those people stole what's only meant for me and did not have my permission to do that for any reason. The only reason I'm okay with it now is because I tell myself -- it's better he did that in movies and it didn't mean anything. It would have been far worse if he was hiding a side piece he was "in love" with while at the same time as me. It would have been far worse if he was in another long term relationship with someone else who he thought he could marry besides me and I don't want someone who thinks he can marry someone else besides me when he couldn't have me. He doesn't love anyone and doesn't want to be with anyone who he has to do kissing scenes with and it's all fake and all the times he told people he kissed whoever -- it wasn't ever anyone he was in love with so it's a good thing for me it happened the way it did. I don't want to be with someone who was deeply in love with someone else before me and had a lot of intimate times with someone before me so now when they're with me it's meaningless to them since they already had their "initimate times" with someone who they didn't end up with. Thankfully, Zac felt the same way and saved the real love for only me. People are like, "everyone has a past and has been in love with another person besides the person they ended up with." I told them, "Nope, I've only ever been in love with my future husband. I never gave my love freely to people who didn't cherish it. The others were flings 15+ years ago that didn't mean anything. I never claimed I loved someone else before the husband who I will be with." And thankfully, Zac never loved someone else, either. I'm the only person who doesn't have side pieces who isn't using him for fame or money. If he tries to date someone else, they won't love him and all they'll want him for is clout, fame and money. I cackle at those losers who love to shout to the world how deeply in love with my man they are and that he's their "soulmate." If they have to spam that shit in the public comments on his page it isn't true for them. I never had to act like them -- that's because I have dignity and class -- things that seem to be lost in today's society with people who think it's okay to drool and hit on a famous celebrity and they don't care if he's taken or not. They don't even care he doesn't want them and they keep drooling just to drool for the clout. I told people that all those fake Mrs. Efrons on social media will never have the real thing for pretending and calling someone their husband who isn't their husband. That's what they get for daydreaming and wasting time lusting after someone who will never be theirs. I only ever thought about my future husband who I will be with who things will work out with. I understand that some people have a past that's different than mine and they've been "in love" with multiple people before the person who they will end up with. . .so their future partner will have a similar past as them. I actually knew a virgin guy once who ended up marrying some girl who was pregnant with someone else's baby when he met her. So weird to give his virginity to someone who was pregnant with someone else's baby -- like he didn't care all his intimate first times were given away to someone else she didn't end up with. . .he even took care of a baby that wasn't his and had children with her after she had a kid with someone else at the same time dating a virgin. Thankfully, I care about who my love is given to and who I am with has only ever loved me and ONLY me for a partner. If a person could see marriage with someone else besides me, I won't marry a person like that. . .but it works for others. Zac and I only see marriage with each other. I feel sorry for my friend who got cheated on by her scum bag husband. She had only been with one person her entire life -- did life right and had kids with only one person and he betrayed her. It sucks how some people can do life right and things still didn't work out for them because of selfish scum bags. And she has to force herself to date other people now because she's not going to take the cheater back. That's why I always wanted a man who is most like me in the world because a man who is most like me in the world will never do those shady things. There has been an epidemic of 65 to 70-year-old and older men in the headlines lately dating, marrying and having babies with women my age. The old men take advantage of the lazy POSs who just want a free ride in life. I can't imagine being married to someone as old as a father or a grandfather type. What the fuck? Nobody could pay me all the money in the world to marry and have kids with an old fart in depends after he had 6 to 8 children with women his own age.
Brad Pitt is next with Ines. People ask, "Why can't those men find women their own age to date and marry?" Why? Because they're immature and it says a lot about their immaturity that they connect with someone their own son's and daughter's ages and not their ages. . .because the young things are the only ones who will put up with someone having 8 to 13 kids with multiple women. An older woman wouldn't put up with that bullshit for the money -- she would be too old for that shit at this day and age. Only young things don't care about old men abandoning their children from their previous marriages with ex wives they've been with for 30 years who were actually age appropriate. The young, dumb bimbos just look at the dollar signs. Recently, on Dr. Phil, a player father had a daughter who was 22 and 23-years-old and when she brought her friend to drink one night, her ex-friend started to hook up with her father behind her back and they had a baby behind her back. . .ew sick. I don't care if an old man is cute or hot or loaded with money or a friend's father. I prefer someone around the same age as me who I can take to raves and it wouldn't look awkward. Billy Ray Cyrus isn't embarrassed at all that he threw away his family with Miley for a young and dumb bimbo with no brains. Firerose isn't embarrassed at all for marrying a man who was cheating on Tish and when he first got together with Tish he had another kid with Kristen Luckey behind Tish's back at the same time as Miley and Firerose thinks that's "marriage" material. What goes on in these women's minds when they marry skeezy old men who cheated on their long time wives and they abandoned children their own ages? I don't get it. Are they on LSD? I used to think that Rebecca cheated on John Stamos with Jerry O'Connell and I kind of felt sorry for John Stamos after that, but now I see -- John always wanted a naive young thing all along who is the same age as the Olsen twins because she's the only moron who will put up with a hot old man's bullshit for the dollars. How can John make posts about Miley and the Olsen twins and not feel weird at all that he's married to someone the same exact age as Miley and the Olsen twins?! John Stamos has really lost my respect for doing that. I get it, though. He wanted to be a father and he could only be a father with a younger wife because older women his age can no longer have children so he's kind of in a stuck situation. Oh well, the only young wife and old man couple who I semi believe is actual love is John Stamos and Caitlin. The rest like Firerose are just with Billy Ray Cyrus for the clout and money, not love. I look up to Jerry O'Connell because at least he picked an age appropriate wife. I lose all respect for those older men who try to take advantage of young women that are just using them for their money and a free ride in life. Just say no instead of falling for a hot, young, dumb lazy POS who doesn't want to work who just wants to be someone's trophy wife. I can't believe some older men seriously give up their families of 30+ years for those young, dumb bimbos who are only with them for convenience. Let's see if their children will take care of them in the nursing homes when they can't walk anymore after they left their ex-wives of 30 years for women around their own sons' and daughters' ages. As soon as an old man becomes so old he has to be in a nursing home, the gold digger young wife will conveniently divorce, take his will, and find another older guy to take advantage of. It was his family of 30 years who would have stayed by his side as he got old, but he chose a young thing over his long time family. Oh well. He's going to realize what he did to himself when he's the only one in the nursing home and no children of his is there to tuck him in at night when he can't walk with his walker anymore. What goes around comes around. He abandoned his older wife for a younger thing so he'll get abandoned at an older age. It's so disgusting to me how society is accepting this fucked up shit that young women my age are having families with men as old as their fathers and grandfathers.
They won't be taken seriously by a younger man after things don't work out with the old farts and the young women my age who are into this shit will have wasted their first marriage on being a widow young and raising young kids by herself and the kids she has with the old man won't have a father to see them get married and raise their grandchildren. The thought of having sex with a grandpa grosses me out. How are women my age into that shit? GROSS. I feel sorry for kids who are put in that situation that they never asked for that in 20 to 30 years when they get married, their father won't be able to walk them down the aisle because he'll be 100+ and gone. Some people are so selfish and don't care what they do to the young children who have a very old father and a way younger mother. I will never do that shit to myself -- it's not worth the money. I prefer having a family with someone around the same age as me. The way she uses an old man for money, house and cars, is the way she'll be used by a younger man when she has to date again when she becomes a widow. What goes around comes around. But no. . .Zac Efron now has a relationship with his toddler half-siblings so I can't have him drop that just because of the toddlers' parents who I don't like.
It's what his relatives were counting on. That's how they're keeping things good with Zac -- because they're using the kids on him so he's lost all his common sense of who he should put first in family situations -- me the person who he lives with and marries. . .I go before them now. And if he keeps putting them above me I'm not sure if it's going to work out. My co-worker A told me his wife's brothers always put his wife's family above their spouses and then A said, "I guess that's why they're both divorced and I'm the only one who is still married to my wife because I put her before any relative." I said, "exactly." We're the ones who live with each other every day. He doesn't share a bed with his fucking relatives and it's turning me off when he puts how they feel before how I feel. It'd be nice if he grew a spine and if he told his POS relatives who abandoned him that they're POS instead of being nice to them for the toddler siblings. . .no I get it, Zac doesn't want to deal with any conflict so he just accepts it because he sees the way it eats me alive when I can't accept it because it's literally sucking the soul out of me needing to be nice to people who don't deserve my kindness after what they did to Zac's family and my wedding photos with their affairs. I'm struggling to have my own family because I always wanted to wait for the right time and for the right person. Meanwhile, I'm seeing knuckleheads who cheat on their wives of 30 years get to reproduce no problem and mistresses can pop out babies like they're giving out candy.
It's disgusting and life is unfair like that. If people saw Dylan Efron hiking in the trails with his little sister on his back and if they didn't know who he was, they would think Olivia is his kid but she's his FATHER'S TODDLER! It's just embarrassing how nonchalant he is about posting his father's toddlers like it's "normal" to have a step-mom the same exact age as him and it's totally bloody normal for his 70-something-year-old father to have two toddlers after raising two grown sons and his two grown sons don't have any kids.
I wouldn't post the surprise half-siblings if that was me and I would disown mine if mine did that shit. Since it's Hollywood, shit like that is actually "normal" to them so they find nothing wrong with it: Billy Ray Cyrus and Firerose John Stamos and Caitlin (who is the same exact age as the Olsen twins who John worked with) Al Pacino having a baby at 83 Robert DeNiro has a baby, too, with someone in her 30s. It's the norm in Hollywood. People are so fucking corrupt having kids with someone their own father's age. They'll be single and widowed parents in a few years because their sugar daddy got old. It isn't about the money for me. I'd rather have a future husband help me out with raising the kids not just paying for everything. Hailey Bieber mainly cares about fame and fortune. She doesn't care about someone genuinely wanting to be with her and to love her the way a real husband should love a wife: so she gets Justin Bieber who pretends to love her for the paparazzi since all she cares about is fame and fortune and she accepts everything that Justin does to her. I wouldn't put up with someone who has a secret affair child with a Kardashian that he isn't telling the world about but apparently Hailey doesn't care about that.
Seahorse is also someone who doesn't care about lasting love in a marriage so Tom Felton is settling for less with her because she's not trying to pressure him to marry her because she doesn't care about marriage at all so she gets a player who has other hook-ups besides her since all she cares about are the fancy free vacations and she doesn't want to work for her own income. As long as she's the main one he takes to his VIP events -- that's all she cares about. She couldn't care less what he does when she can't go with him to places. I have standards and boundaries so I won't put up with half of the things that Hailey Bieber, Seahorse and others let Justin Bieber and the likes get away with. Crystal Hefner Hugh's 3rd wife just wanted to be a Play Boy and she didn't care about working hard for her modeling career so she got what she got. If people want to act like airheaded bimbos who don't have values, no boundaries and no morals, I can't imagine they'll end up with a very good guy acting like that! And if all they want is a guy's money or if all a guy/girl wants is sex -- they're going to end up with an airheaded bimbo with no values and they're going to get a guy who sucks in bed so Crystal Hefner said she hadn't hooked up with Hugh in a long time and was actually cheating on him in the last few years. That's what she gets marrying a man for his money and fame and she doesn't care about being physically attracted to Hugh so of course the sex sucked for her when all she wanted was his money and fame from a rich old guy -- gold diggers is what we call women and people like her. There was this one post by a girl that said she was tired from all the things she needed to do during the day and when her partner tries to initiate sex, she wasn't into it because he wasn't really helping her around the house with little chores stuff so the only thing she knew how to do as a response to get her way was to withhold sex from him.
I thought she sounded a bit pretentious doing that but apparently, she was getting a lot of support for acting like that and when I said, "You do know couples cheat and divorce over not getting sex from their partner so I'm not sure how that's helping you acting like a brat and withholding sex because you're not into it?!" I'm sure her partner has things he needs to deal with during the day and yet he still manages to find time to be turned on by her despite stresses throughout the day. People in the comments were like, "Oh, if you're not into it don't make him bully you for sex" and "don't cave in just because he wants it, etc." When I tried to say Zac's parents literally split up because of sex because Starla wasn't interested in sex anymore so David the douche found a hot young thing who is still into sex, they mass downvoted me when I told the OP withholding sex is really not a proper answer because he'll just cheat or find it elsewhere. . .and I'm really not too sure why the dumb commentors got offended by me when I spoke the truth?! I can't stand those people on relationship forums. They really don't want advice or criticisms at all. They just want a bunch of people to tell them they are so right and they mass downvote anyone who dares disagree with them. I told them when Starla withheld sex from David because she got older and isn't into it anymore, he kept cheating on her and found another wife who will give him sex. . .so the pretentious OP can keep withholding sex, too, to get her way to see where her marriage ends up in a few months. I didn't say her name obviously, but I just gave an example as to what happened to someone's marriage when they withheld sex from their partner who is into sex. I'm glad I have a partner who couldn't care less about sex. I always wanted someone who understands that sex isn't a necessity for us and that we can enjoy each other with no sex to avoid breakups over sex because there are more important things in life than sex and Zac understands that sex isn't a big need from me because I only want to hook up with my husband and when we're in a long distance, I don't need sex from someone in my own city. Some people cheat in long distance relationships and long distance marriages because they can't keep it in their pants for their long distance partners. Zac and I can last because he knows the sex isn't good with those dumb ass bimbos who just want to use him for fame and money so he's not going to mess up what he has with me over a one-night stand fling that wouldn't be worth it. Sometimes, I wish I could just forgive people who don't deserve forgiveness. I don't know why I don't just forgive Zac's dad. . .because it's just wasting my energy hating on an asshole.
So David Efron wants to be a faithful husband to Jenny Efron, now, huh? He even gave the wench his last name. So David Efron wants to be a whole family for Henry and Olivia the way he never was with Zac and Dylan because he was always cheating on Starla. Sometimes, I just want to tell Zac, let his father be a whole family to Henry and Olivia. He wants to be a faithful husband now after putting Starla through hell and back. Let him live his new life without me, without Zac, without Dylan. We're ruining his image of being a "whole family" if we blend in with his new family. David wants to be a faithful husband now to a side piece and not the wife he was with for 30-years. We should just let him. I don't know why Zac considers his father's new kids siblings, just because they have half of the same DNA that makes them siblings?! Sometimes, I wish I could just forgive David because I know Henry and Olivia would like me and all that but I just can't and I don't know why. It just angers me how he wants to be faithful to Jenny after constantly cheating on Starla -- the mother of his first born son. I can't stand Zac's fucking asshole father. I have been biting my tongue not saying shit about Dylan as well because well I'm not with him THANK GOD.
I keep telling myself, "Don't get mad at the boys for spending most of their days with the toddlers -- the toddlers are family. It's not like they're out there having affairs with other women like their cheating daddy did when he was bored and had nothing better to do he had affairs on Starla. When Zac and Dylan are bored they play with the toddlers." It's a good thing that Zac is with the toddlers and not having affairs with bimbos. I'd rather he spend his days with his toddler siblings and not having affairs the way his dad did when his dad had nothing better to do. Still. . .The boys can be really daft and insensitive to the girls they are with. I wasn't going to say anything about Dylan because I'm not with him thank God, but it looks like he's still not getting his priorities in order if he's still posting his daddy's little toddlers all the time. That's another reason why I wasn't going to be with Zac -- that he's making me wait forever for our own little family while he's doting on his daddy's little toddlers all the time. David's just ruining things for both his sons at this point with his surprise toddlers because the boys are spending time on the wrong things. They should be pampering their partners who they are with, not spending every moment with the toddlers. Are the toddlers the ones they're going to marry? No, so why do toddlers get most of their affections whenever they're free? I don't know why that girl puts up with Dylan's shit for 9 years with him telling her he's not ready for all that but he'll spend days with Olivia and Henry. So he clearly is ready for all that if he's all goo goo and gah gah over Olivia and Henry. He's clearly not afraid of kids and commitments since he'll happily accept his daddy's new toddlers as siblings. I was about to tell Zac to kick rocks for the same reason for making me wait, too, while he plays with his daddy's little toddlers all the time. But then I told myself I don't want to rush things and that when Zac and I have kids we'll actually stay together if we don't rush it. My co-worker A was like, "You don't know why Zac's dad left his mother."
I go, "Yes the fuck I do. Starla didn't want to fuck anymore because she's getting old and doesn't care about that shit and David still wants to find a young thing who still wants to get freaky. There is nothing more to the story as to why David broke up a 30-year marriage when he literally had EVERYTHING with Starla." He had two successful sons with Starla and what I thought was a rock-solid 30-year marriage (which apparently wasn't) what more could a man ask for?! I guess that wasn't enough for David to work things out with Starla. One son didn't thank his second wife at all for shit so you know Jenny never contributed SHIT to Zac's success. It's pretty obvious that was all Starla and David. I said, "It's pretty obvious when he leaves the older wife for a much younger bride who is still active that's the reason, dude." I told A I don't get why Zac is so nice to his father's new family and the new kids. His father REPLACED HIM AND HIS BROTHER AND STARLA AND ZAC STILL CHOSE HIS SHITTY ASS DAD AND THE TODDLERS WHEN I MADE HIM CHOOSE ONE TIME. I told myself I shouldn't get mad at Zac for this shit because it's not like he's choosing another woman, it's his fucked up family. A was like, "Well Zac still loves his dad even if his dad is an asshole." I said, "I can't believe Zac would choose that fuck face and the toddlers over me. I would never split up our family after 30 years like that." I told A, "Zac thinks he has to choose his father just because he raised him and blood and all that, but what he doesn't get is that his father didn't choose him." A said, "And Zac will never figure that out that his daddy never chose him. He'll keep choosing his dad just because it's his dad." I said back, "Which is unfortunate." If it took me 8 years to forgive my own dad, I don't know why Zac thinks his father deserves my forgiveness at all when my dad wasn't even as shitty as his father and my own dad didn't do half the shit Zac's dad did. My dad just wanted to be on his own and after not talking to my dad for 8 years he surprised me with two PUP siblings, not two half-sibling toddlers. . .So when I compare my dad to Zac's dad, I guess my dad's not that much of an asshole. It's going to take another 16+ years for me to forgive Zac's dad if it took me 8 years to forgive mine, but that's the thing. I don't want to waste all my energy hating an asshole who doesn't deserve my energy at all. The only reason I might forgive Zac's dad sooner than my own is because I don't want Zac's dad ruining my marriage with Zac when Zac's dad already ruined his own marriage. He doesn't need to ruin mine with Zac and Zac being nice to his second family and his dad was tearing us apart for a while. I was even considering not being with Zac if he's telling me he's excusing his dad's infidelity and affairs and he's accepting it just because it's his dad. His dad needed to be held accountable for being a shitty father and a shitty husband and Zac was acting like his dad wasn't an asshole and that I should happily meet his father after what he did to Starla and Zac's family. If David Efron had divorced Starla without all the affairs, I would have been more understanding. . .however David was literally knocking Jenny up the whole time he was still legally married to Starla, and I think he was even cheating on Starla with others, too, and they weren't divorced yet. I told A, "At 70-years-old, I can't believe men still cheat. One would think they would be over all that cheating drama by that age, but yet 70-year-olds are still acting like they're players in college. People used to tell me they wanted an older man because they thought older men were more mature. Not lately." A's like, "No, women nowadays just want the older men for the riches, house, and cars, etc. . .not because they're more mature because they're not." Exactly, "A lot of people nowadays are gold diggers and don't want to work for shit!" Fans are calling the Efrons the first family and even the fans were ecstatic about that picture and they never mentioned Jenny and the toddlers.
Jenny thought she was living the life with a rich old man who happens to be the father of a famous movie star. As she watched Starla at the star with her family, Jenny realizes what she's done to Starla and more importantly to herself. At least she has all the money in the world, right, and she doesn't have struggle to find a house to live in the way I still have to live with relatives for cheap rent. I prefer being with someone I'm attracted to who is the same age as me. I don't get why women go for those old grandpa men who can barely keep it up. . .actually I get it, those women are gold diggers just looking for a free house and free cars and all they have to do is sit pretty for a rich old man. And naive old men like Billy Ray Cyrus actually thinks a young thing like Firerose is with him for "love." No one has ever heard of Firerose until she blasted the world with her marriage with Billy Ray Cyrus. Billy Ray gave Firerose clout. If John Stamos or Brad Pitt, or even Leonardo DiCaprio tried to hit me up I would still say no. I don't want a 60-year-old or a 70-year-old husband when I'm not even 40. I guess Caitlin likes that and she doesn't care how it's weird she's the same exact age as Mary-Kate & Ashley who John worked with on the Full House set. It's becoming the norm that 30-something-year-olds are having babies with 70-year-old and 83-year-old men all for the money and the house and cars. EW! I'm glad I like earning my clout and my fame and riches. I don't need a perverted rich old man for all that shit. And Zac likes me for that -- that I'm not a user and I don't need any clout from him and I have my own clout. David Efron ruined special family occasions by bringing his mistress along to the Star Ceremony and my wedding with Zac Efron is going to be more or less the same exact way as the Star Ceremony with the photos -- that we have to pretend to be a whole family with Zac's parents for a split second family photograph and then take another photograph with David's second wife. David thought getting a second wife would solve all his problems, it just created more problems for him. Zac definitely thanked his mother and father right away, but no thanks to Jenny and she wanted to take a picture with Zac at the star with his father and didn't even get a thanks? That's what I thought. I don't know why she thinks she can insert herself and take over that whole family with her toddlers. It's all water under the bridge. No one can do anything about her and David's poor choices. They just have to live with the awkwardness of a blended family and having a grandpa daddy husband who she can't take to raves where raves are mainly YOUNG people.
I laughed out loud thinking about it when I was at Gryffin's rave and imagining Jenny and Firerose with their grandpa daddy husbands at a rave. . .oh, but they just want a rich old man for their riches. Zac sees why I only want one husband and he's not going to do that to our kids and our family what his father put me and Zac through -- Zac's and my kids will never have to experience that broken pain and disappointment and embarrassment of a father having a second wife who is 30 years younger than the first wife. I feel bad for Zac and his brother that they pretty much have to accept that shit because they're forgiving and every time they post the toddlers people think it's Zac's and Dylan's kids -- fucking embarrassing how they have to correct people and say it's their little siblings. I have a 2-year-old and 3-year-old brother and sister-in-law and a 30-something-year-old-step-mom-in-law. Never thought I'd be in a Dirty Grandpa situation, LOL. Zac's life really is like his Dirty Grandpa movie where he has a baby uncle, except he has a baby brother and a baby sister even though he's at the age of having kids himself. I could feel the awkwardness and how they tried to laugh it off. Where's the toddlers?! They make Zac and Dylan post the toddlers all the time but no toddlers in the photos?! Weird.
Ladies and Gents, and this moment is exactly why I will only ever have ONE FUCKING HUSBAND AND WORK THINGS OUT BECAUSE I'M NOT ABOUT PRETENDING TO BE A WHOLE FAMILY JUST FOR ONE PHOTO FOR AN IMPORTANT EVENT. And I bet Jenny feels awkward as fuck being there as David's date because she didn't contribute shit to Zac's success because it was Starla who took Zac to all the rehearsals and auditions and paid for Zac's education before he became famous. I'm sure David regrets what he did now, especially after this moment, but once he cheated made kids with the second wife, he has to live with his in the heat of the moment decisions. The first person I ever told about Zac Efron and me tried to take advantage of me personally knowing celebrities to get with Zac herself and now she wants to make amends after she realized her mistake.
I already foresaw this a long time ago that I would have a "friend" who would try to backstab me about Zac and Zac would never date anyone who would try to go behind my back to be with him. A year or so has passed and the ex-friend wants to be friends again. I can no longer trust her. She was the first person I ever personally told about me and Zac and she thought she could try to get with Zac for herself when she didn't believe I personally knew Zac through other celebrities and in dreams. Her excuse was I wasn't "official" with Zac yet when she tried and she kept begging me she wouldn't have pursued him at all if he had gotten back to me within the first day or two. I told her, "Well, you know I was about to be with him and we were in the talking stages at that point. That doesn't give you the right to try to date the same guy as me. It isn't a competition." A while later, she realized what an ass she was and that I really am talking to Zac through dreams and through our other celebrity friends. I told her, "I could have hooked you up with another celebrity but you decided to try and get with mine when there are plenty of other hot celebrities to date." She keeps trying to tell me to let it go but the trust is broken. I forgive her since it does take a person a lot to apologize at all. Sometimes, I never got any apology from others in the past and she actually apologized or tried to. I can't help but think if she had gotten her way with Zac would she have cared to make amends at all? She would be frolicking with Zac if she got her way and not caring about having my friendship back. She's only trying to be my friend again because she sees I am friends with other celebrities she could have dated and she was an idiot for trying to date Zac. I kept telling her at the time those accounts claiming to be Zac were fans pretending to be him but she didn't want to listen to me or my celebrity friend who knows me and Zac that she never talked to Zac. Zac doesn't make unverified Instagram accounts or any unverified accounts. He only talks to fans on his verified accounts. She thought she would get lucky like me because another real celebrity had actually DM'd me on an unverified Instagram account that looked like a fan account but it was a real celebrity DM'ing me. I told her things like that only happen to me it doesn't happen to a lot of people. Celebrities trust me that's why they like to befriend me because I'm not one of those psycho obsessed fans who make weird fan accounts about them and I post as myself and I don't act desperate about them. That's what I keep telling those lunatic crazed obsessives who drool that when they drool like that celebrities don't want to date them and they don't want to personally befriend them. I act normal about celebrities and I treat celebrities like they're not famous and just like me. They don't get special brownie points just for being a hot celebrity and that's what Zac likes about me. I told people the only reason many fan girls thirst over Zac 24/7 is because he is famous and has clout. I often wonder if they would still be about Zac if he didn't have fame and wasn't rich he'd be just another hot guy they walk past. They're only psychotic about him because he is rich and famous and has clout and he will never date anyone that drools over him like that. All these years ago I kept wondering why God had me befriend corrupt people, and why the fates paired me with someone who came from a corrupt father and corrupt Hollywood with woke libtarded politics when God knows I have no tolerance for corrupt people and their shady ways. I only want to befriend decent people who know how to act right who I don't have to lecture about their behaviors.
And then I get what God's trying to do with me having me befriend shady people and pairing Zac Efron and me together because Zac and I have the same exact hearts in what we believe and how we treat people -- well he's more forgiving than I am and I stand up for myself more than he stands up for himself and I don't let people push me around the way Zac is sometimes bullied into doing something by the haters like posting for them when he doesn't want to but he caved (I will never take a knee. I cussed him out for that and he never posted libtarded shit ever again. I told him, "Are you serious, asshole? Everyone knows what side you're on even when you pretend to post for them because you don't want to be bothered by the woke trolls. Posting for them won't do anything they'll keep hounding everyone to post for them until everyone conforms to them so I never post for them at all."). . .I'm supposed to be their light in all their darkness and corruption because they truly do not have someone like me for a friend or an influence at all seeing as how they behave. Broken people hurt people. Decent people don't go around being shady to everyone. I told a friend, "It's easy to preach The Word and The Light to people who already know The Word. and The Light. Like, I don't need to lecture my other Bible Study/Church friends who get what life/the universe is all about -- aka there are things about ourselves that we cannot change and we are how we are born as no matter how we may feel and no matter what the libtards tell us. When libtards feed us bullshit about there being 57 genders and 1,000+ pronouns that's Satan talking. It's the people who are corrupt and deceived by Satan who need The Word and The Light." And I get why God had me be fated into a family with an unfaithful in-law. . .to be The Light for that family. I get it. I know I have to forgive Zac's dad for the shady shit he's done because I know Henry and Olivia and Jenny would all like me if I didn't let what they did in the past get to me. I kept asking myself, "Am I meant to bring up what Zac's dad did? Yes. . .it was wrong of everyone to pretend he didn't cheat and do what he did because Zac's getting blamed for his dad's behaviors by my friends and I don't like that shit because Zac's not like his shady dad at all." Zac and I balance each other out for real. . .he doesn't like to argue about anything at all. I've noticed he never fights anyone because he doesn't want to deal with any petty bullshit, lmao. . .and I cuss people out for him. We're not exactly the same in how we handle things like how he handled his father is not how I would have handled it but with both of us together we do balance each other out. We're not supposed to act exactly the same. We're only supposed to believe the same exact things which we do -- THANK GOD. He's the guy version of me so he's going to be more easy going than me, LOL. I always told people I wanted the guy version of me. I can't believe the guy version of me is a very hot celebrity who a lot of fan girls drool over. OMG. There's this spam account called kellyj who goes on a lot of posts calling Zac her boyfriend. She made this comment on Dylan's post. Why are some fans so fucking weird? What does she hope to accomplish with this spam?! She spams this same comment every fucking where there's something about Zac. And I thought the other crazed obsessive was annoying pretending to be in a fake marriage. This loser who keeps calling Zac her boyfriend on every Zac post is just as annoying as the other one.
Acting like that won't get her the guy so she can stop calling my real life hubby her boyfriend on every fucking post. What a lunatic. OMG @ Dylan posting himself holding the toddler sitting next to his young Step Mom.
It's not Courtney. It's the Step Mom. A commentor said, "Is that your MOM? She looks so young." And some replies I saw were one thought it was Courtney and another said it's the step mom. And the sons are not embarrassed by that shit. They just accept whatever thing their father does and they don't care what anyone thinks about it because he's their father. I would not proudly post myself sitting next to a young person my age with people wondering who she was and asking if it was his MOM. Sick bitch is smiling while she's holding Henry like she does NOT care one IOTA how she hurt Starla. I wish the roles were reversed and she was the one who got betrayed by David and left after a 30-year marriage for someone who David's only known for less than five years. Let's see if she's still smiling if she was in Starla's shoes. Holiday meetings with Zac's Dad's family are going to be so awkward after I cussed his entire family out for being snakes and hoes, lmfao. I get why Zac just accepts it because he doesn't want to deal with the drama of not accepting it but at the same time his dad's shady behaviors shouldn't just be ignored. Zac sees how much agony I'm in and how much pain it's causing me to not forgive David for what he's done and he doesn't want to feel the hurt and disappointment that I feel on a daily basis so he accepts his dad's new family because screaming to the world in agony about it won't change a thing. It's so shady how his dad basically traded his older wife in for a younger bride who he dotes on and gave his last name to even though she didn't give David his first born son so I'm really confused why Jenny gets his last name and not Starla?! Funny how she has David's last name but she won't post her proud husband and her page is private on Instagram, why is that?! Looks like she's embarrassed of having a grandpa daddy husband who is as old as her own father if she won't proudly post him to the public on Instagram. She'll only post the kids, but not her standing next to the love of her lifffeeeeee. I know Zac wants me to be cool with his dad's family because he knows I'd be a good influence on Olivia and Henry, and even Jenny because Jenny clearly doesn't have any good role models in her life if she thinks she had to marry an old man as old as her father for stability and a family, but I have nothing in common with a woman who does shady shit like that. I keep telling myself, "Forgive her. She's young and stupid and was just all about being with a movie star's father. She never thought about the consequences or the future of being a single divorced/widowed mother when David gets old. She'll realize what she's done to herself in a few years when she has to do everything herself and David can't help her around the house because he's older now." It's funny how I don't like Zac's family and they have nothing bad to say about me and they love me of course. Damn right that's because they know I'm the best for the Zac and they don't have shit to say because I'm the only one who does things like calls out the Zanessa shippers and users for using him while others just drool and they aren't like me when it comes to being with Zac. I don't get how Zac and his brother are just so chill with what their dad did to their mom. Miley doesn't talk to her father at all after he married someone her own age.
I guess guys don't give a damn about loyalty to their parents as much as girls do. Zac and Dylan accept David's second family even though David literally tore apart their own family for those toddlers and David didn't choose Zac. David chose his own selfishness and desires. Another thing that pisses me off about the whole thing is that every holiday Zac and Dylan are always posting their fucking father's family. Do they ever visit their mom on holidays? Or what? I think she just doesn't want to be posted after the divorce and it's embarrassing for her to be posted like that. Why every holiday at their dad's? Where's Starla?! This doesn't sit well with me. I have to tell myself maybe it's Starla who doesn't want to be posted anymore after the divorce. I'm sure they have holidays with her they just don't post it as much as they post Henry and Olivia. There's other things that I want to say about that whole thing but it's like it doesn't matter. They're my fucking in-laws and I have to accept it because Zac's still cool with his dad's second family after everything. Ugh. The creepiest fan of all time: @mareenefrn/@mareenefron and that's out of every fandom I've ever been in.
I thought @tom_and_roxanne -- a troll account obsessing over a PR stunt with Tom Felton and Roxanne was weird, but this girl @mareenefrn buys herself real jewelry and pretends it's for/from Zac. What things people will do for clout. It's crazy how far this fan will go for attention: She spams my man 1,000 fake marriage love notes spam on multiple accounts, turned her whole bedroom into a love shrine with fake marriage edits and photos of my man all over her walls and then had the audacity to think she should post her creepy Zac love shrine room, wears realistic looking wedding rings and girlfriend rings and pretends it's for/from Zac, uses his last name with her first name on all her social medias, she keeps every hot photo and hot video of my man that gets published, sends me hate mail on fake accounts pretending to be other fans but I know it's her on fake accounts, took a trip to the US to Zac's city, traveled 6 hours in France to see Zac in person just to get told he doesn't want to talk to her and she keeps thirsting. I'm glad I don't act like her and I actually have traits called: self-respect & dignity: things she clearly lacks traveling 6 hours just to get rejected and she continues to drool even after she got rejected to her face. What a loser. I'm not going to feel sorry for losers anymore. She chose to be someone who annoys a celebrity crush so my man doesn't want to take a fan photo with her because she's weird and creepy with her obsession. She also thought she could make fun of my weight because she brags about having a yoga body -- a yoga body that my man doesn't want. He always knew I would be a little chubby and even said in his IMDb quotes, "I like chunky girls." He didn't say, "I like yoga body girls." He likes me because I'm fit and have just the right amount of chub -- not too much and not too little. Some people want to know the trick to being fated with a celebrity crush: I don't drool over people who don't want me and I don't drool over other hot guy celebrity crushes and I accept who I am truly meant to be with so I was blessed with a celebrity crush who a lot of crazed obsessives waste time drooling over. They all knew only one person would be with him so I don't know why they wasted their time fantasizing while Zac Efron isn't posting me. And obsessing and spamming a celebrity crush fake marriage love notes and love shrines definitely won't get a crazed obsessive her dream guy that's for sure. So the weirdos can keep acting weird pretending to be in fake marriages with people they aren't with. They shouldn't expect Zac to date them if they're just obsessed with spamming his hot photos and hot videos to get fake likes and fake comments. He will not date anyone who is obsessed with spamming him for clout. He likes me because I don't drool over every hot thing he does and I put him on blast when he doesn't act right. I don't ignore how inappropriate he can get sometimes just because he's hot. I have self-respect and dignity so he respects me. Self-respect & dignity seems to be lost among the crazed obsessives who will do whatever it takes to get their celebrity crush to know they exist. Kind of scary how far some fans will go to see if they can get a celebrity crush. Motley Crue member Nikki Sixx recently posted about two women fans harassing his wife and kids. This will not be tolerated by me especially when my man doesn't want any crazed obsessive.
I would never marry someone as old as a could be grandpa's age and yet Jenny Efron, Firerose, Caitlin Stamos, all did the very thing I would never do to myself. I don't care how hot a way older guy is. I said NO when a way older man tried to pursue me.
People are like, "They definitely didn't marry those old men with multiple families for love. It was for the inheritance and benefits of course." While young women like them don't want to work and they want everything handed to them, they run the risk of being single mothers in a few years when the older men's health deteriorates. I prefer having a loving partner who will help out with the kids, not just money. Being a single parent will get old all because a man isn't around to help because he's 90 having toddlers. Some people might argue well their parents were around the same ages and a tragic fatal accident happened and life was cut short with parents who are of age so we don't know how long an old man will be alive. All I know is a man who had toddlers at 70, will not be healthy enough to walk his young toddler daughter down the aisle when she becomes of age to marry. Also, those young women who marry older men for their money and status don't tell people that once the men get old and they can't get it up anymore, they'll have to divorce and she'll have to find sex elsewhere. It's also looked down upon by decent people when young women marry older men who had affairs on their older wives, but I guess some young women don't give a rat's ass about reputation and image. They just want the guy any way she can get him even if it means tearing a family apart. I will never marry a man who is as old as a father and grandfather's age. That's so sick and disturbing how some people are okay with that shit and they think it's normal to marry someone their daughter's and son's ages. Plus, those young women will have to be a caregiver for their old ass husbands when he can't walk or bathe himself anymore and they gave up their youth to be their old ass husband's live-in nurse when they could have been out partying and enjoying life with people their own age. Plus, hanging out would be weird since the wife and the husband probably don't have friends of the same age groups and the husband's friends will be older and the wife's friends will be in their 30s and that would be just weird. I would never with a 65-year-old, 70-year-old, 83-year-old grandpa daddy husband. Thank God Zac Efron is my age -- just a year and a half apart. |
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