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I think for myself. I don't get my politics from trendy liberal activists on Tiktok or IG.
I’ve been accused of being “brainwashed” simply because I don’t align with left-wing ideologies — but the truth is, I think for myself. My values and beliefs are shaped by critical thinking, lived experience, and a desire for consistency, not by blind loyalty to any political figure or party.
I do not support the modern left because I find many of its positions increasingly extreme and inconsistent. The obsession with pronouns and identity politics often feels disconnected from reality and distracts from real issues affecting everyday Americans. The constant protests and performative outrage, while often well-intentioned, tend to create more division than solutions.
I also take issue with the hypocrisy surrounding elections. The left insists Republicans should have immediately accepted the results of the 2020 election — yet they refused to accept the results of the 2016 election and have already cast doubt on 2024. If election integrity matters, it should matter regardless of who wins.
These are not fringe grievances. They’re patterns of behavior that reflect a broader unwillingness to engage in honest dialogue or self-reflection. My decision not to support the left is not about partisanship — it’s about principle.
And also, I'm getting tired of being called a bigot who is brainwashed by Russian disinformation from Trump. Rolls eyes. I asked why far-left activists are offended by people who state biological facts about what a woman is and a weirdo spammed me that I'm brainwashed by Russian disinformation from Trump.
What the fuck?
I’ve been accused of being “brainwashed” simply because I don’t align with left-wing ideologies — but the truth is, I think for myself. My values and beliefs are shaped by critical thinking, lived experience, and a desire for consistency, not by blind loyalty to any political figure or party.
I do not support the modern left because I find many of its positions increasingly extreme and inconsistent. The obsession with pronouns and identity politics often feels disconnected from reality and distracts from real issues affecting everyday Americans. The constant protests and performative outrage, while often well-intentioned, tend to create more division than solutions.
I also take issue with the hypocrisy surrounding elections. The left insists Republicans should have immediately accepted the results of the 2020 election — yet they refused to accept the results of the 2016 election and have already cast doubt on 2024. If election integrity matters, it should matter regardless of who wins.
These are not fringe grievances. They’re patterns of behavior that reflect a broader unwillingness to engage in honest dialogue or self-reflection. My decision not to support the left is not about partisanship — it’s about principle.
And also, I'm getting tired of being called a bigot who is brainwashed by Russian disinformation from Trump. Rolls eyes. I asked why far-left activists are offended by people who state biological facts about what a woman is and a weirdo spammed me that I'm brainwashed by Russian disinformation from Trump.
What the fuck?
Over the Double Standards & Hypocrisy
🔥 Hypocritical Talking Points of the Left -- Since people like Perez Hilton, Devon Sawa, Liz Plank, Jodie Sweetin, Hilarie Burton, and Sophia Bush refuse to address the hypocrisy of the left, then I WILL!
Accuse Others of Thinking They're Always Right — But Never Admit When They're Wrong
The left loves to say, “You just think you’re always right” — but they rarely, if ever, take accountability when they’re wrong. They shift blame, rewrite the narrative, or pretend it never happened. Admitting fault just isn’t in their playbook.
Double Standards on Crime Based on Politics and Race:
When a BLM liberal kills someone, the left calls for leniency or even supports freeing them. When a BLM liberal is killed, it’s national news and a tragedy. When someone like Austin Metcalf — who doesn’t fit their narrative — is murdered, they stay silent. Their reactions clearly show who they care about and who they don’t, and it’s not based on justice — it’s based on political identity.
🏙️ Key Difference: Republican vs. Democrat Cities
🔥 Hypocritical Talking Points of the Left -- Since people like Perez Hilton, Devon Sawa, Liz Plank, Jodie Sweetin, Hilarie Burton, and Sophia Bush refuse to address the hypocrisy of the left, then I WILL!
Accuse Others of Thinking They're Always Right — But Never Admit When They're Wrong
The left loves to say, “You just think you’re always right” — but they rarely, if ever, take accountability when they’re wrong. They shift blame, rewrite the narrative, or pretend it never happened. Admitting fault just isn’t in their playbook.
Double Standards on Crime Based on Politics and Race:
When a BLM liberal kills someone, the left calls for leniency or even supports freeing them. When a BLM liberal is killed, it’s national news and a tragedy. When someone like Austin Metcalf — who doesn’t fit their narrative — is murdered, they stay silent. Their reactions clearly show who they care about and who they don’t, and it’s not based on justice — it’s based on political identity.
🏙️ Key Difference: Republican vs. Democrat Cities
- Republican-led cities and states (like Texas, Florida, Tennessee, etc.) tend to be more affordable when it comes to housing, gas, taxes, and cost of living — even if the leadership isn’t perfect. People might not agree with every policy, but at least people can afford to live and build a future in Republican cities.
- Democrat-run cities (like L.A., San Francisco, NYC, Chicago) often preach about helping the poor, yet have sky-high rents, crushing taxes, and a widening wealth gap. You’ll hear a lot of buzzwords — but everyday people are getting priced out, pushed aside, or straight-up ignored. And I'm still having to live with a relative for affordable rent.
- I'm still not impressed with the California Democrat Economy. Why would I vote for politicians who cause me to live with relatives for affordable rent? Just because Orange Man Bad? Yeah, no. Even if I saved every penny, I still would not be able to get my own house.
- I came from Indiana when I used to have my own apartment with my own room and two other roommates. Ever since I have moved to California, I literally had to share a bedroom with a relative or live with a relative just to get by. Where's the liberal utopia that liberal experts keep talking about how democrat politicians are supposedly "better" for cities?
- Anti-Gun, But Pro-Abortion
They say guns take lives and want no guns — yet advocate fiercely for abortion, which literally ends a life. “My body, my choice” only applies when it’s convenient to them, not when it comes to gun ownership, vaccines, or mandates. - Support for Women — While Redefining What a Woman Is
They claim to fight for women’s rights, but also say anyone can be a woman — erasing biological women’s lived experiences, sports, and spaces. - Care About the Poor — While Running the Most Expensive States
Left-run cities like L.A., San Francisco, New York, and Chicago are financial nightmares for the middle class and poor. Rents are sky-high, taxes are crushing, and homelessness is out of control — but they call it “progressive leadership.” - Follow the Science — Until It Disagrees With Their Agenda
They chant “trust the science” for COVID, climate change, and vaccines — but ignore biology when it comes to gender and deny fetal development when discussing abortion. - Preach Tolerance — But Cancel Anyone Who Disagrees
The left demands inclusion and free speech, but silences, doxxes, and cancels anyone with a different opinion. If I don’t conform, I am labeled a bigot, fascist, or Russian bot who believes Russian disinformation. - Defund the Police — While Hiring Private Security
They said police were oppressive and should be defunded — but their own politicians and celebrities still roll with armed security. Your safety? Not a priority. - Claim to Be Anti-Racist — But Reduce Everyone to Skin Color
Instead of judging people by character, they obsess over race, promote race-based policies, and push division under the guise of “equity.” - Pro-Choice — But Only on Abortion
They say “my body, my choice” for abortion — but supported mask mandates, vaccine mandates, and forced shutdowns during COVID. Bodily autonomy only matters for their issues. - Protect Kids — But Support Drag Shows and Gender Transitions for Minors
They say we must protect children, but then support exposing them to sexually suggestive performances and irreversible medical procedures before they’re even old enough to drive. - Support for Democracy — But Censor Opposing Views
They scream about protecting democracy, yet push for censorship on social media, attack free press that isn’t left-aligned, and cheer when opposing voices are shut down. - Claim Moral Superiority — But Never Admit Mistakes
They act like they hold the moral high ground, yet never acknowledge when they’re wrong. Blame gets shifted, facts get twisted, and history gets rewritten. - Promote Diversity — But Enforce Groupthink
They boast about diversity of race, gender, and identity — but when it comes to thought or opinion, you're either with them or you're “dangerous.” - Stand Against Violence — Except When It’s Their Side
January 6th is called terrorism, but BLM riots that caused billions in damage were “mostly peaceful protests.” Violence is condemned only when it doesn’t serve their goals. - Tax the Rich — While Living Like Royalty
Many left-wing leaders claim to fight for the poor but live in gated communities, fly private, and push tax hikes that don’t hurt them — just the working class. - Say You’re Brainwashed — While Worshipping Their Own Politicians
They call conservatives cult-like for supporting Trump, but treat figures like Biden, Obama, AOC, and Kamala like saints who can do no wrong. And they all repeat the same exact talking points at the same exact time!!!
People often ask me what my check boxes are in a relationship/marriage.
- Basic Respect:
Someone who values what I value and respects my beliefs, not accepting fake news over my perspective. (Many people in town have failed this one requirement alone. It's not about accepting differences, it's about understanding why I think the way I do and not trying to convince me of bullshit but accepting I will not change my stance on certain subjects.). I'm not looking to convert someone to anything that I believe, a person has to figure that out on their own and Zac Efron has figured it out on his own without needing me to convince him of beliefs. It's annoying how people keep trying to fool me with their propaganda and they can't accept that I chose to be on the side that I'm on. It's so annoying. - Loyalty: A partner who stands by me and is committed to the relationship.
Even when I'm in a long distance, I do expect loyalty and no side pieces. . .and Zac Efron has shown he can be trusted in a long distance. I was in a long distance with other people before who failed the long distance relationship test and they had side pieces behind my back so I wasn't going to make time to hang out with them in person if I did find that out. Zac doesn't have side pieces and he knows no matter what happens I'll always find out about it even if there's no public info about it, LOL, so he knows better than to try to do something behind my back. Another celebrity I was with years ago thought he could hide his not famous side piece from me and I still found out through his fans even if he never posted her and pretended he was single to the public, lmao. Zac knows better than to trick me like that.
I don't give second chances after a person cheats the way some people don't care about getting cheated on and they'll still keep taking a person back just for the PR or benefits. - Defending Me When I'm Wronged:
Someone who is willing to protect and defend me when I'm treated unfairly. Zac finally said something to the people forcing him to do fake scenes that I'm not okay with and he will no longer allow people to pressure him into something that doesn't grow anyone. He just needed my help with that because people try to take advantage of his kindness to get him to do something he shouldn't do. - Accountability:
A partner who can apologize when wrong and shows changed behavior, demonstrating true remorse. Zac has shown he is very remorseful he let people bully him into doing inappropriate fake scenes and he will not put himself in that position ever again. I wouldn't be with someone like Nicole -- who doesn't care who she hurts to get what she wants. - Prioritizing Me:
Always putting me first in the relationship, not relatives or anyone else who hasn’t put them first. Zac used to think he had to put a relative first who raised him. I had to remind him his own relative never put him first and he finally realized he was never chosen first so he will put me first from now on. He was trying to keep the peace by accepting everything that happened in his family, but it wasn't worth it in the end to make me mad over it. He and I would NEVER break up our family after 30 years of solid foundation.
The saying goes, "Happy wife, happy life!" - Understanding Boundaries:
Someone who understands the importance of choosing their partner over relatives who didn’t choose them, as Zac Efron has done. . .I knew he was under a lot of pressure to accept the bullshit, so he needed my help to break free from the pressure. - Genuine Choice:
Someone who chooses me because they truly want to be with me, not because they couldn't get anything else or see me as a last resort. I'm no one's last resort. - Following Through with Plans:
Someone who follows through with commitments, like Zac Efron saying he will visit me in December and doing so without hesitation. When Zac says he will do something he will do something so there's no point for people who don't believe I'm talking to him to say he's not coming in December because they don't believe a famous celebrity like him would be with someone like me. - Punctuality:
A partner who is on time to events and keeps to the plans we make together. - Basic Hygiene:
Someone who maintains basic hygiene, including regular grooming and showering, without needing to be told. Cleanliness is a must. -- literally can't believe I've seen some relationship posts say their partner stinks and they don't know how to tell them, lmao. It's a hell no from me about that. - Clear Communication:
Someone who understands and respects my values and doesn't need things repeated multiple times when they've already heard me the first time. I often get told how some people don't like to repeat the same instructions when it comes to work related things. . .well I don't like to have the same conversation over and over when it comes to life partner things. I didn't change my mind the first time I discussed politics/religion with people and having the same conversation 20 times does nothing.
LED Decor
Cousins
The eldest cousin graduated from the baby cousins table when she got married and had kids so she is no longer at the baby cousins table, lol. This is just the table of cousins who are in relationships and not married with kids yet.
When everyone was talking about their boyfriends/girlfriends and when it got to me, I showed a guy cousin a picture of my boyfriend and he's like, "Zac Efron? Yeah, right." LMAO.
I said, "Okay, so when I bring him in December to gatherings what are you going to do?"
He's like, "Yeah, that's not going to happen."
I said, "You're going to owe me $1,000 when he finally shows up in person."
And then he goes, "Then I'll owe you $1,000 when I see him with you in person."
LMFAO.
The eldest cousin graduated from the baby cousins table when she got married and had kids so she is no longer at the baby cousins table, lol. This is just the table of cousins who are in relationships and not married with kids yet.
When everyone was talking about their boyfriends/girlfriends and when it got to me, I showed a guy cousin a picture of my boyfriend and he's like, "Zac Efron? Yeah, right." LMAO.
I said, "Okay, so when I bring him in December to gatherings what are you going to do?"
He's like, "Yeah, that's not going to happen."
I said, "You're going to owe me $1,000 when he finally shows up in person."
And then he goes, "Then I'll owe you $1,000 when I see him with you in person."
LMFAO.
St. Patrick's Day Nails
Finally painted my own nails with my own nail kit - not at the nail salon.
Piano Cover: Hercules - Go the Distance
The Pets in The Pets Room
The pets finally realize how comfortable their master bedroom king-sized bed is and they don't need to crowd me in my full-sized bed, LOL.
The pets finally realize how comfortable their master bedroom king-sized bed is and they don't need to crowd me in my full-sized bed, LOL.
National Pet Day
On sunny days, Shadow likes to take naps on the picnic table or the grass matt in the garden. When it's raining and if she doesn't want to come inside yet wow, she knew what the umbrella was for, LOL. The neighborhood cats do visit her in the garden. She has one other black cat friend named Baby Girl who stops by to visit Shadow from time to time because Shadow knows where all the good cat food and unlimited supply of water are so all the neighborhood cats take after her.
My neighbor who I showed my Jiggly Puff collection to was like, "Oh, wow. The biggest Jiggly Puff of all must be the Jiggly Puff God. That's the mom Jiggly Puff, the dad Jiggly Puff. Oooooh, there's even a baby Jiggly Puff." Lmfao.
02/07/2025 - On Friday for lunch, a co-worker planned an Indian lunch buffet birthday meal for me for those who couldn't make it to my birthday dinner.
Sesame Ball Soup and Dim Sum Noodle Soup
RIP: Older Mike O'Donnell (Matthew Perry) and Maggie (Michelle Trachtenberg).
Good food and endless free drinks motivate me. This is way better than my last job's food.
One of my new co-workers makes customized desk decor for people at work. I was like, "Really?! Omg. Could you make me a Jiggly Puff decor?! I can't believe it. So neat!!!" I was like, "Don't I look like a Jiggly Puff because my face is round?! Hahaha." They're like, "Not because your face is round but because your face is pink." LOLOL. And I sometimes act like a Jiggly Puff, too. Jiggly Puff is my spirit pokemon.
Midnight with Gryffin & Gryffam! I could have slept through NYE, go to a friend's house to watch the ball drop on TV, went to Times Square, or any other rave, but destiny had me going to Gryffin's last minute surprise rave. Ringing in the new year with what I love doing best: going to shows, concerts, and raves and not just any rave -- a friend's rave. The best is yet to come.
It's so ironic how my true future husband and I were both in musicals in high school, except I was in the orchestra pit and not on stage. I could be in a soundtrack orchestra for a movie or TV Show, lmao.
It was so funny. I was talking to this girl next to me telling her how I know Gryffin from Zac Efron and she was like, "Wow." I go, "If Gryffin does anything if he can spot me in the front row when he's on stage that means he knows me."
And when Gryffin got on stage I was like, "Does he acts like he knows me?!"
The girl was like, "OMG, he spotted you in the front row. You ARE with Zac Efron and Gryffin.
Sometimes this real life fantasy trips me out, too, especially whenever I go to Zac's friends' shows they know I'm with him even though I haven't hung out with Zac yet, hahaha.
The highlight of Gryffin's Homecoming: A nude man flashed his peen to everyone at his Meet & Greet Pop-Up Shop.
And when Gryffin got on stage I was like, "Does he acts like he knows me?!"
The girl was like, "OMG, he spotted you in the front row. You ARE with Zac Efron and Gryffin.
Sometimes this real life fantasy trips me out, too, especially whenever I go to Zac's friends' shows they know I'm with him even though I haven't hung out with Zac yet, hahaha.
The highlight of Gryffin's Homecoming: A nude man flashed his peen to everyone at his Meet & Greet Pop-Up Shop.
The fact that I got to meet the new Troy Bolton from HSMTMTV before I met the OG Troy Bolton just makes this real life fantasy all the more hilarious to me, lmfao.
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